Don’t Call Me – I’ll Call You

by Janis Patterson

I have been accused – and pretty much rightly so – of being a Luddite. Technology for the sake of technology has never attracted me, especially when it interferes with my life. Now I love my computer, love the ease of word processing, love the ability to publish both ebooks and paperbacks with the tap of a finger. That’s practical and useful.

By contrast I do hate telephones. And every day I hate them more. Not really telephones, per se, but telemarketers and most especially robocalls. Just what makes these people believe they have the right to interrupt what I am doing at any given moment and use an instrument and a service for which I am paying to advertise their wares, which I neither need nor want? It’s also insulting for them to imply that if I do need/want something I am not smart enough to go find whatever it might be by myself, that I need them to bring it to me.

Robocalls are the worst. You can’t even get the satisfaction of reaming out the caller, and since they don’t give you a phone number (at least, I never stay on the line long enough to find out if they do) there’s no way to report them to the National Do Not Call list. Which is a joke – a bad joke – anyway. When it first came out I was religious about reporting every single unwanted call  – which might have made me feel righteous, but which did absolutely no good. As a taxpayer I am furious that my tax money (for which I work very hard) is being spent on something that does nothing. (Which, when expanded, becomes a whole other post, probably unacceptably political.)

I don’t respond to robocalls. As soon as I realize that it is a robocall I hang up, and I don’t care from whom it comes. It’s taken me a couple of years, but finally I have my doctor and my dentist trained that if they want to communicate with me, they don’t do it through a robocall. My dentist emails me, and my doctor has her office receptionist call directly, both of which are infinitely more civilized and human systems than a robocall. I don’t talk to robots.

Of course, I could just turn off the phones when I’m working, but aside from the fact there are elderly people in our family for whom I am responsible and need to be available to them, WHY should I have to? It is my telephone, my line… in order to get my work done why should I be forced to deprive myself of a convenience for which I am paying? If Congress really wanted to help the American people, they would make all sales, charity and political calls – in other words, all solicitation calls – illegal and back it up with gigantic penalties/sentences for offenders.

As a mystery writer with a definitely twisted mind, I cannot help but dream of ways to get my own back on those unwanted robocalls, especially when they yank me away from something important. So far the best (and least bloody) idea I’ve had is a disrupter. Remember back in the early days of answering machines when you carried around a plastic box about the size of a package of cigarettes? When you wanted to check your messages you’d call your phone and after the outgoing message began you’d hold the box next to the mouthpiece, press a button and your messages would play. I dream of a similar set-up, but with my idea when the robocall begins, you press your disrupter device and the robocall machine burns out, unfixable and never to be used again.

Of course, there would be dangers, like could the disrupter signal be traced back to the call it was making when the call machine imploded – i.e., to my phone number? However – I know we have the technology to make such a disrupter, so I can only hope that the technology also exists to protect the poor inundated recipient of such calls who has been driven to madness because of such unwanted interruptions. Sigh. Hopefully someday. Whoever invents such a device will make a fortune. And in my opinion, use of such a device would be guilt-free. I am on every no-call list that exists, and if the offender ignores the law to try and sell me something, why shouldn’t I be able to ignore a law to protect my privacy?

I repeat – I pay for my telephone service and instrument because I want a way to contact and be contacted by those with whom I wish to talk – not to provide a free venue for strangers to try and sell me something I neither need nor want. Surely there is at least one mystery plot somewhere in this muddle of obtrusive criminal (yes, criminal – they steal my time and use of my line and instrument) vs telephone owner. Perhaps if everyone wrote one the telemarketers/robocall bosses might get the idea we’re mad as h*ll and won’t take it any more!

On another note, I would like to say that my YouTube channel is up and running – and I would be most appreciative if you would drop by. It’s called Janis’ Tips and Tales, and a new episode is released on the fourth Thursday of every month. Thank you!

11 thoughts on “Don’t Call Me – I’ll Call You

  1. I do all the things you’ve all listed above and yet we still get robo calls. I hate them not only for the annoyance, but because the ringing phone scares my cats. Can’t even doss off in the afternoon…guaranteed you will get a phone call from someone you don’t know. Hate it!!!


  2. I’m like the others, if a name doesn’t pop up that I know, I let it go. I figure if it’s important the person will leave a message. But I like Earl’s message. I think I’ll add it to my phone. Thanks, Earl!

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  3. Well said and right on. We recently moved and discontinued our land line. That got rid of at least half the junk calls. We,don’t answer cell phone calls if we don’t recognize the number. My next move is to change our welcoming message to: “We don’t answer calls if we don’t recognize the number, If you’re not a telemarketer, spammer, or other kind of scum, please leave a message and we’ll call you back.”

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  4. Absolutely agree – we have the same situation over here. I block ‘nuisance calls’ but that doesn’t stop the ‘robo calls’ completely, and sometimes a ‘real’ nuisance caller sneaks through. I let them waffle on for a while, and when they pause for breath, I ask ‘Do you or anyone in your family read romance? I’m a writer and all my books are available on Amazon.’ Funnily enough they seem to hang up immediately!

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  5. We use an answering machine on the landline and screen all calls. Not answering robo calls and spoof numbers cuts down the crap.

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  6. Couldn’t agree more. We only answer the phone if we recognize the name or the number. And that’s a shame. Remember when it was exciting to hear the phone ring and to answer with anticipation? Such a shame that a wonderful invention, one that has become a necessity, has become a source of annoyance.

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  7. Love it! If I don’t recognize a number I block it. Of course, the calls keep on coming from other numbers, but at least I won’t get calls from that one again. It’s terribly annoying, and you expressed your frustrations perfectly!

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