I have signed up for four book selling events this spring, and I’m looking for more. I absolutely love doing these events. I haven’t branched out to the outdoor ones yet, but I’m sure I will eventually.

I like meeting people. I like talking about my books. Even though I’m an introvert, when I’m talking about books, whether mine or someone else’s, I lose my shyness and enjoy every minute of it. I’ve found that most people love talking to authors. It seems strange to me, because I am an author, that most people I meet at these events have never met one before.

I’ll never forget my first fan girl moment. I drove seventy miles to meet Mary Higgens Clark. She was one of my favorite authors. I stood in this long line that ran around the inside of the bookstore and out the door, for an hour, waiting for my chance to meet her and get her to sign my book. What a thrill!

My first impression of Mary was that she was tiny and very charming. My only regret was I didn’t have a camera with me that day. That was back before cell phones, and you had to carry your camera with you. I remember being so jealous because the girl behind me in line did have her camera and Mary was gracious enough to agree to a picture with her.

My next fan girl moment was with Tony Hillerman. I wasn’t a huge fan back then, but my best friend was and we waited in line for a long time to get his autograph. He was delightful, and my friend was practically swooning when we left. I have since read some of his books and know why my friend was such a fan.

I’ve also had some very disappointing meetings with authors. One big name (really big name!) author I met was not personable. He acted like he didn’t want to be there. The bookstore had set up a question-and-answer time with him, and he was curt and acted like it was beneath hm to answer our questions. Was he just shy like so many authors are? I don’t know, but he could’ve been nicer. He went on to sell millions of books and if I mentioned his name, you would recognize it immediately, but he didn’t make a good impression on me. I guess his books are so good, and they really are, that people overlooked the fact that he really wasn’t a nice person.

Another author I met whose books I loved turned me off because she was so unapproachable. It was at a mystery conference, and she had a posse around her to keep her safe (I guess) from her rabid fans. I was so disappointed because I really loved her books. She later came out and said some scathing remarks about people who thought differently than she did, and I quit reading her books. Did she miss me dashing to the bookstore to put down my money for her book when it first came out? No, not at all, but even though I loved her stories I didn’t like her at all.

Most of my experiences with my book signings have been positive, but I don’t think anyone gets by without someone who wants to pick your book apart. One woman came to see me at an event just to tell me that she was angry at the way I’d ended the last book. She was very loud and her face was red as she shook her finger at me. And I had one woman get hold of me online to tell me that she thought there was a misspelled word in one of my books. She said she always noticed misspelled words and was sure I would want to know that she found one in my book. My first thought was, only one? 😊

But those encounters are few and far between, thankfully, or I would probably never step outside my house again! Most people I meet are wonderful. They are so excited to meet you that it’s very humbling. I’ve had several people tell me they’ve never met a real author before, and I’m thinking, I’m a real author? LOL

My philosophy for book signings or giving talks in front of a room full of people is, fake it till you make it. I put on my smiling face and do my best to be pleasant to everyone. I was even nice to the lady who screamed at me because the book didn’t end the way she thought it should. Do I sweat a little at each event? You bet I do! But the positives far outweigh the negatives.

My goal for each event is to make one new reader or one new friend. I’m doing my best to grow my readership. One of the hardest things for me is cold calling on bookstores. I really hate to do that. If you have a way that makes that part easier, please let me know. My challenge for this year is to get at least one more bookstore to carry my books.

We are well into 2026. How are you doing with those writing goals? Are you racing against time like me? Trying to get your word count every day. Wanting to keep the goals you made on January 1^st?

Every year, I have the same goals. Write at least two books, lose twenty pounds, exercise more, don’t spend so much time on social media, and be more focused on my goals. I feel like I’m slowly making progress, but it’s very slow.

I like to wake up in the morning, grab a cup of coffee and write. When I have other things I have to do instead, it throws off my whole day. I try and make it back to writing, but that doesn’t always happen.

Life is busy. There are so many calls on my time, and I ask myself every year, how do I say no to things that I don’t need to do so I can concentrate on writing. You know how it is, on Monday you look at the week ahead and think, I have lots of time to write this week. Then things begin to steal that time away. Your best friend wants to meet for lunch or someone needs  you to do things for them. The kids need you. The bills need to be paid. You have to shop for groceries. The list goes on and on.

I’ve known writers who say they never go out to lunch when they are writing a book. They wait until the book is finished and then take a few days to catch up with friends before they dive into the next writing project.  I personally don’t think I could do this. I don’t want to live in a vacuum where all I do is write. I want to find a way to have it all!

Others say they shut off their phones or shut down social media while they’re writing. I think this might help me. There is no reason I need to check social media every few minutes. I don’t even need to check it every hour.

I decided to go online and see if I could find good time management goals for writers and there were a lot of them. I borrowed a few ideas.

Create a To-Do List

I love making lists. There is so much satisfaction in checking off those tasks, so this one really appealed to me. Put everything on your list because everything sucks up our time. And maybe if it’s there you can find a way of doing it faster to free up more time for writing!

Set Boundaries

I have a tough time with this one. I’m a people pleaser, so if someone needs me to help them or needs something done, I tend to put aside my schedule to help them out. I need to work on this one.

Avoid the shiny objects syndrome

That made me laugh, but it’s important to stay focused on your current project and avoid getting sidetracked by a new one.

There are apps that block distracting websites. If you need to, use them. I don’t know how many cute clothes I’ve bought because an ad popped up for one of my favorite websites and I just had to stop what I was doing a buy a sweater or dress.

Avoid procrastination

I know I’m a procrastinator, so I need to figure out how to work around that. Common reasons for procrastination are fear of failure, perfectionism, and feeling overwhelmed.

Set realistic goals. 

Don’t think you’re going to write 50,000 words in one day. Make your goals attainable. I read somewhere that Stephan King writes 2,000 a day. If that’s what works for you, that’s great. Just try and do it every day.

Use specific times for different tasks.

I like to write first thing in the morning, and work on social media posts and marketing in the afternoon or evening. Sometimes I make the mistake of skipping writing for marketing. I’ve found that marketing can suck up a lot of my time. I need to be strict with myself and make sure I keep to my schedule. One way to do that is to jot down notes when something sparks an idea while I’m writing, then I can do that later during writing task time.

I’m easily distracted, so self-discipline is very important for me.

And one of the most important things is to not guilt yourself if you don’t get your writing goals done. I liked this quote I found online: Scheduling is there to serve you. You are not in service to scheduling.

Time management is an important tool in our writer’s toolbox. My goal for 2026 is to use it wisely.

In these, the last few days before Christmas, I’m struggling. Not to finish the shopping, baking, wrapping and decorating. Those things will get done as they do every year. I hope.

I typically start panicking two weeks before Christmas. How will I get it all done? What gifts do I still need buy? I don’t know what to get anyone in my family except maybe my granddaughter and two-year-old grandson. (One gives me a list, and the other one is just fun to buy for!) When will I have time to wrap the gifts, bake cookies, and make the candy my kids like? I’m normally making lists like Santa on speed.

I’m not sure why, maybe it’s because I’ve been so busy with book stuff, but this year I haven’t had time to worry about Christmas. I’ve been on autopilot when it comes to Christmas. But Christmas is getting done anyway. Interesting.

In the last six weeks I’ve published two books, had a book signing at a bookstore and I’ve taken my books to three Christmas bazaars. Yesterday I met with a book club whose members had read my three Thrillers and wanted me to sign them. I’ve also spent many hours on social media trying to get word out about my books.

So, here is my struggle. While I’m busy trying to market my books and get ready for Christmas, I’ve had a terrible time getting any writing done. Not because I have no time to write, because even with all the craziness I have had time. Not as much as I normally do, but I can grab an hour here and there.

My writing schedule is normally to get up in the morning, grab a cup of coffee and write for two hours before I do anything else. There are days when that schedule doesn’t work. Like on Mondays when I have the two-year-old, or I have an early appointment, but I try to save those hours to write.

For some reason, it hasn’t been working for me in the last few weeks. And when I have made myself sit down and write it isn’t going well. I’ve started the fourth book in my series six times.  Every time I think I have it nailed down, I read it back and it isn’t working.

I can’t get my mind back in the game. Is this because my mind is revolving around all of the things that I need to do like a hamster on a wheel? Will I be able to calm down and write when the holidays are over? I sure hope so because now I’m way behind schedule.

And then, as if I didn’t have enough to think about, the universe dropped an idea for a Christmas mystery in my lap. I’ve always wanted to write a Christmas mystery. It’s all there: the main characters, the villain, the detective and even the ending. I want to stop writing the next book in the series and write this one instead! I’ve jotted down notes and hope to find time to write this book in 2026 also.

I’d love to hear what you all do when life is crazy, and your muse is trifling with you. Do you whip it into shape or go with the flow? Any advice you’d like to send my way would be greatly appreciated.

Meantime, I’m over here baking, buying gifts and wrapping and longing for the day after Christmas when things will go back to my kind of normal routine and I’ll hopefully be able to figure out the opening of my new book.

Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and may we all be productive in the new year!

Since this is Thanksgiving season, I decided to ask myself what is it about my writing career that I’m most thankful for. There are so many things to be thankful for, and I feel I need to remind myself once in a while just what they are.

I was listening to a podcast the other day and the narrator asked the author what part of the writing process she would outsource if she could.

This writer is a quite successful independent author. She said that when she started out, she did everything. But she’d become quite successful and was able to hire a personal assistant to help her. One of the things her PA does is format her books.

Since that is one of the hardest parts of the job for me, I laughed and told a friend, “When I get rich and famous, I’m going to outsource formatting my books!”

I’ve already hired two editors and a cover designer. But I felt like I wasn’t making enough money to source anything else out. Then I noticed on the email I got from the woman who designed the cover for my Christmas Romance she had added, please talk to me about formatting.

I took a chance and asked her. Her prices were so reasonable I didn’t have to wait until I became rich and famous. I told her what a nightmare it was for me. She said she’d be happy to do it because she’d done so many it wasn’t a nightmare for her. I was thrilled by how fast she got it done. And when I tried to upload my files to Amazon and Ingram they went through without a glitch. I am so thankful to Paty Jager who told me about Covers by Karen. Paty has always patiently answered my questions.

On the podcast they suggested doing the parts of the writing business that you love and hiring the rest out. I like marketing my books. I know I’m not that successful at it, but it’s a part of the business that I enjoy. So, for now, I’ll continue to try and market them. If I could afford to have a marketing person, you can be sure I would.

My books are so much better since I hired my editors. They go through my books and give me feedback, and correct grammar and spelling. They are incredible.

I’m so thankful for my cover designers. I used 99 Designs for the first four books and Covers by Karen for the last one. They all did such a great job. I know writers who design their own covers, and they are beautiful. I think that’s great, but I’m not a designer. I have no idea how to even begin to do that, so I’m thankful for artists who are good at what they do and design the covers for me.

I love having the freedom to pick the titles and the cover design. And I love to write, of course, or I wouldn’t be doing this.

I love my readers and I’m so thankful for them. Even though my tribe isn’t that big yet, they are wonderful. They share my social media posts and tell their friends to read my books. A couple of my readers have asked their libraries to carry my books. They are amazing!

 It makes my day when one writes to say they enjoyed my book and couldn’t put it down. Or they stayed up all night reading. One reader told me this about the Christmas Romance I just published: “I loved every page!”

I’ve been so lucky along my journey to meet so many wonderful people. From the writing instructors to other writers who have gone out of their way to offer help when I’ve needed it. I’ve also reached out to industry professionals who’ve been more than kind and answered questions about law enforcement.

I’m thankful for my family who have encouraged me and helped in any way they can, from designing and maintaining my website, to taking my author picture to reading early drafts and giving input and editing.

I love this job. As I read back over this blogpost, I realize how lucky I am to have so many people who have helped me along the way. I hope to write for many more years, and I hope that I’ll look back often and think about all that I’m grateful for.  It’s easy to get caught up in the grumbling, and I do from time to time. But when I stop to think about it, there is a lot more to be grateful for than to grumble about.

Happy Thanksgiving! I hope you are counting your blessings too.

This has been a busy month for me. I launched Her Last Breath, my third book in the Hood River Valley Mystery/Thriller series a couple of weeks ago. It took longer than I thought it would, but it’s now out on Amazon. I think it will be available to bookstores and libraries on October 19^th.

I’ll be selling my books at our local Fall Craft Show on the 18^th and 19^th. And I have an upcoming book signing in Pendelton, Oregon at Brett’s Books New and Used on November 1st.

I’ve been getting ready for those events and trying to finish the edits on another book. This one is a Christmas Romance. Several years ago, I wrote about 80% of this book and never finished it. It had always been on my bucket list to write a Christmas Romance. For some reason, I just didn’t know how to end this one. Maybe it’s because I’m normally a mystery writer and the ending is typically the solving of the crime.

There were no crimes in my Christmas Romance. There’s a little intrigue, but crime doesn’t take a leading role. So, I talked to my friend and fellow author, Cassie Moore, and we brainstormed until I had the idea for the ending, and I was able to finish it.

The premise of this book is: What do you do when the man you thought you’d spend the rest of your life with dies, and you’re certain you’ll never love anyone else again? And then a stranger comes along and turns your world upside down?

While Brynn Cummins fights her attraction to mystery author Jack Andrews, she finds herself embroiled in two family problems that seem insurmountable. Her son’s ex-wife is trying to take their two-year-old son away from him while he’s being deployed. and after she has given up all parental rights. And Jack’s ex-wife is needing his help because she’s going through cancer. Then her crazy brother gets involved and complicates Jack’s life even more.

As love blooms between Brynn and Jack, can they navigate their way through their problems and find their way to each other? Or will the problems be more than their fledgling relationship will bare?

I’ve been editing two books, trying to get one formatted and into production, while setting up book signings. Then one of our dear friends died unexpectedly. He had been having cognitive issues for the last few years, but I thought he was strong physically. He wasn’t, and dealing with his death has been so hard. He was such a good man, and he will be missed.

His Memorial Service is next weekend. Last weekend I was supposed to go to my cousin’s funeral. Instead, I ended up in the hospital. I’ve been here two days, and they are planning to do surgery today. When you think you are already too busy, and life drops something like this on you, it’s like, how am I supposed to get everything done when I was already overwhelmed, and now I have a hospital stay?

I’ll be glad when today is over and I can get well and move on. I had warning signs. For the last few weeks, I kept having chest pains that moved into my abdomen and back. But they didn’t last long, and I was in denial. I didn’t want to take time out for health reasons.

Then last Saturday the pain came and wouldn’t go away. I tried lying down and getting up and walking around, all things I’d done in the past to alleviate the pain. It just got worse and worse, so I called my husband and said, “I think you need to take me to the hospital.” It’s probably a good thing I came. I will be fine, I just have a few days of recovery, and I’ll be up and around again.

I’m determined to make it to the Memorial Service for our friend this weekend, and to the Craft Show. Someone will have to carry my books in, but hopefully I can arrange that.

Fast forward a couple of days, and I’m home. Surgery went well and I should heal nicely. I’ve learned that no matter what plans I have that I feel can’t be changed or shelved, life has a way of changing those plans sometimes.

I still plan to make my friend’s memorial. But I may have to bow out of the Craft Show as much as I hate that. Amazon doesn’t plan to get my new book to me until the day after the show closes. I’m keeping my fingers crossed that they’ll come early, but I just checked tracking, and it doesn’t look good.

I could scream, but I know that won’t do any good. The books will come when they get here. There will be other opportunities to sell my books. I just need to chill and let life do what it’s going to do.